For The Love Of Having A Chic Shoe
A good shoe does more than complete an outfit, it tells a story about who you are, where you’ve been, and the version of yourself you’re stepping into.
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Summer Joy Is Political
Joy isn’t a reward for surviving. It’s a practice of refusing to let burnout, grief, or fear have the final say. This summer, I realized that every rooftop party, every solo date, every relationship, and every moment I intentionally budgeted toward the season of summer wasn’t frivolous, it’s was an act of resistance. Because in…
Throwing The Bouquet In The Name Of Love
If you know anything about me, I’m far from the trad wife but I am a lover girl through and through. When I began to feel the desire to get married, it was during a time when a former friend was disposing of her marriage because she craved newness. It was a challenging time for…
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Tales Of An Unbothered Bride : Weeding Out What Truly Matters
As a 2025 bride that began her planning process as of a few months ago, I’m coming to terms with the reality of planning and having your wedding the same year. I recently spoke to 2026 brides who are planning for their 2026 wedding ceremony and wedding planning seems a bit intense generally. As a…
Unfinished Business: Within The Mind
This morning I woke up and my body felt off. Granted, my period should be here any day now, but I began thinking about what can possibly be wrong. My boyfriend asked me, “What triggered this sadness?” and I immediately said that I felt like a failure. Mind you, I felt amazing yesterday. But today…
Needling the loose ends of your 20s: Thee Only “Child”
If you’re meeting me for the very first time, Hi, I’m Jestine and I grew up as an only child. I tell everyone I know because wtf is this and why is this a thing? I could have the birds and bees conversation but that’s mad awkward so let’s talk about something less cringe like,…
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A Deep Dive Into A Leo Moon’s Mind : Defining HERStory
Leo Moons & Their Chaotic Life, I mean Light * As a Leo moon, we take on multiple roles in this world but one of them is to shine bright like a diamond. Leos are known as the brave, loyal, and confident individual in the zodiac. If you have a Leo woman in your life,…
The Monster Within: Captain America The Brave New World
This weekend, I indulged in some nerdy fun and finally went to see Captain America with my boyfriend. Despite the racist critics who tried to undermine Anthony Mackie in this role, I was thoroughly moved by how well he carried the mantle. His wit and heroic presence made the film both inspiring and thought-provoking. It…
My Boss Babe Evolution 🤍
Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to. I remember having to drop out of college because I didn’t have the confidence to seek other options at the time. I heavily relied on my mom to make decisions even if they were detrimental to my success. This was the first time…
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Redirection is Protection: Embracing Solitude, Loss & Art
Sitting in silence, self-reflecting without disruption, curating blog posts, dancing for hours, or gradually sipping tea as it cools—these small moments of solitude are my lore. They always have been. Growing up as an only child, I spent a lot of time in my own world, whether by choice or consequence. Solitude was both my…
Defining What Home Is + Owning My Reality
As a kid, we are placed in environments that can make or break us even in silence. Often adults overlook the pain and suffering the youth faces because they’re often too caught up in paying bills and trying to find love themselves. But they forget how much we need love and what we require can…
Girlfriends S1: EP3 Pity P*ssy
Are male egos the only thing that’s fragile? Sex isn’t just another task to ‘get it over with.’ It’s one of the most sacred acts and deserves to be experienced with genuine intention. But have we fully lost the plot of dating as a whole ?
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What do you have to lose if you don’t take risks ?
Being the risk taker means going against the grain, not giving a fuck how people perceive you, and genuinely embracing a journey that truly aligns with your spirit. The burning sensation that you have when you think about the things you’re passionate about are in alignment with risks that you’re being challenged to take. Growing…
Truths birthed through evolution
I used to live for the hope that others would show up for me—waiting for love, for kindness, for basic human decency. But I’m not waiting anymore. I choose me. I refuse to shrink, to mask, or to explain my existence to people who can’t even face themselves. My life is mine to build, and…
Harlem Season 3: A Love Letter to Black Sisterhood and Messy Growth
If you haven’t heard of Harlem, you might want to re-evaluate your streaming choices. This Prime Video series, centered around four Black women living in—you guessed it—Harlem, New York, has been a breath of fresh air in the realm of modern television. As someone who was born and raised in the city, seeing a show…
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Letting Go Can Also Mean Letting In : Harlem S3EP1
Season 3 of Harlem beautifully highlights the evolution of four strong women navigating vastly different chapters in their lives—from the joys of pregnancy and marriage to the triumphs of business success and the courage of choosing yourself. Despite their unique journeys, their bond remains unshakable, proving that true sisterhood can weather any storm. This season…
How to “have your way” everytime
Getting what you want isn’t about manipulation or luck—it’s about mastering the art of alignment, clarity, and action. Whether it’s in relationships, career, or personal goals, the key to having your way every time is understanding your power and how to use it. In this post, we’ll dive into actionable steps to shift your mindset,…
My dream job is PINK ˚˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧˚.🎀༘⋆
What’s your dream job? I recently had a conversation with my cousin about the “bum-ass job” phenomenon—a reality for many people navigating life without a degree. The options are endless for those who need work, but the lack of fulfillment can be draining. As someone who has worked at over 10 companies in my lifetime,…
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The Reality Of Marriage, Merging Families, College Life, Therapy & Self Acceptance + Being The “Strict Friend”
After years of silence, I’ve found my voice again—sharing my journey of self-discovery, healing, and embracing the changes life brings. From relocating and rebuilding my community to navigating love, school, and self-expression, this is my raw and unfiltered perspective on growth and relationships.
Knowing that someone really likes you as a person, is the PERFECT example of love
Love is a journey of growth, self-discovery, and connection. In this post, I reflect on how my relationship has deepened my understanding of love—not just as something shared with my fiancé, but as something rooted in my own self-worth and faith. From healing past traumas to embracing the beauty of partnership, this is a story…
Friendship Goals 2025: Building Authentic, Balanced, and Intentional Connections
I value intentional connections rooted in kindness, mutual effort, and self-awareness. Friendship, like any relationship, thrives when both people show up authentically, balance the conversation, and inspire each other to grow. In 2025, I’m committed to nurturing aligned relationships that prioritize honesty, joy, and reciprocity.
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Is the goal to live long, or to live correctly ?
Life has its highs and lows, but I’ve learned that the responsibility for my happiness lies with me. It’s overwhelming at times, but it’s also one of the greatest gifts. Whether I’m romanticizing a simple trip to the café or imagining a future filled with wisdom, I’ve realized this life is what I make of…
How To Calm Your Inner Child, When You Just Want To Crash Out
The new year came in and I was still very much so uneasy about the lingering relationships I was entertaining. I sometimes feel guilty cutting people off often but my inner child has her shield up and her timbs on whenever she feels unsafe. There’s been many situations that happened in her presence that were…
12 Life Lessons and Observations From Home Alone
Revisit Home Alone this holiday season and uncover 12 surprising lessons about family, fear, kindness, and courage. A must-read for every fan!
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A Wicked Purpose: Elphaba’s Journey to Harness Her Power
Elphaba’s decision to defy gravity and take the road less traveled is a powerful reminder of how choosing our own path, despite adversity, leads to self-discovery and growth. In this post, I explore how her journey in Wicked mirrors the importance of embracing our true power and stepping away from the expectations of others.
Is Ari Lennox “too black and normal” for this generation of R&b artist ?
Ari Lennox is facing the challenges of maintaining relevance in a music industry that often values image over authenticity. From social media pressures to the harsh realities of fame, Ari’s journey highlights the fine line between staying true to oneself and ‘playing the game.’ This piece dives into her struggles, her growth, and what it…
Dad, you’re a wasteman.
To those with dads who are actual superheroes, treasure them—because some of us got the Joker instead. Apart of being just a girl, comes with you setting boundaries like a WOMAN. Despite who it is and where it is, somethings need to be set so the tone is clear FOREVA.
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Is it necessary to be upset with your parents for their bad choices in relationships ?
I am diving into the Amazon series Queenie, a powerful show that beautifully illustrates the journey of forgiveness and healing from parental trauma. Queenie provides a raw and authentic portrayal of a young woman grappling with her past, offering valuable lessons in resilience and self-discovery. Discover why Queenie is a must-watch for anyone looking to…
Do women expect for their Prince Charming to save them ?
Do women expect for their Price Charming to save them ? As I dive deeper into the compelling topics the Sex in The City franchise has blessed us with, I’ve embarked on an episode highlighting the ladies becoming more aware of their personal goals and values, well sorta .. lol
When is it ever the right time to tell your friend the truth ?
Everyone loves the “real friend” who keeps it 100 on all the taboo topics but tends to villainize the friend who keeps it 100 when it pertains to you. It never seems to be a good time to have an intervention with your friend because, truthfully, female friendships are often based on stroking each other’s…
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The Grand Finale OF Embarassment : AD & Clay’s Marriage Recap | Love Is Blind Season 6
It’s disheartening to witness women squander their love and time on unworthy partners. While I’ve made mistakes in the past, it’s time to draw a line. How many times will we allow men to disrespect us, exploit us, or worse, abuse us? It’s 2024—time to guard our hearts fiercely.
Evolving Perspectives on Womanhood in 2024: Are the new elders women of integrity?
In the ever-evolving landscape of womanhood in 2024, a striking realization emerges – the moral compasses of women, particularly those in influential roles, often miss the mark when navigating a male-dominated spaces. The absence of advocacy and positive influence becomes a missed opportunity for the evolution of female role models.
As a woman, I’m not proud of who I am today
Being a sad black girl is a complex and deeply personable experience. As black women, we all have different reasons to be sad because our reality is less whimsical as others. The intersectionality of race and gender adds layers of complexity to the already challenging task of navigating one’s emotions.
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Exploring Nature’s Masterpieces : The Cockrell Butterfly Center In Houston 🦋🌿
The Houston Museum of Science features one of Houston’s most captivating exhibits to date. Houston has many hidden gems for nature lovers but the Cockrell Butterfly Exhibit has to be one of the most serene places to be especially if you’re looking for a cool place to explore with your partner, friends, and your family.
Every woman has insecurities, including Barbie 🎀🪞🩰🦢🕯️🎀🪞🩰🦢🕯️୭ 🧷 ✧ ˚. ᵎᵎ 🎀
From the beginning of time, women have been finding different ways to tap into their femininity. Whether it’s through self care, having children, or simply being of service to other women. But one of the most common things that every woman can relate to is having insecurities, even Barbie!
The Battle Between Being A B*tch And Simply Saying NO | Having Boundaries As A Woman
Saying no is simple but saying it to others can be challenging. Life constantly will challenge you with opportunities to say no and sometimes we fail, but its important to be more firm in your decision making process.
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Dear Women, Be Bold At ALL Cost
Recently Rapper Sukihana was sexually harassed and assaulted which has lead her to be afraid to defend herself. Let’s unpack what has lead to this and the importance of women speaking up for themselves no matter the cost.
Why is it important to constantly define your purpose in life ?
Defining your purpose provides you with clarity, motivation, and a clear direction in your life. It helps you set realistic goals, make logical decisions, and to be accountable for your actions. By knowing your purpose, you can focus on the things that matter most to you and find fulfillment in your mundane daily activities. Additionally,…
March 2023| Beauty & Lifestyle Favorites
March is a month full of busy schedules, preparing for spring, and getting out of that early year rut that seems to come over you for at least 2months. Some may say it’s seasonal depression, others may say it’s the post holiday blues but for me, I was just TIDE. This month, I dabbled in…
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Amazon Prime’s Swarm Review : America We Have A Problem
Swarm premiered on Amazon Prime on March 17 and it came in HOT as we were able to visualize celebrity obsessive fans, dysfunctional sisterhood & boyfriends, and of course LOT’S OF Bee’s. Click here to see my full review of Amazon Prime’s New Show, SWARM!
Digital Journal Entry : I haven’t seen my period in MONTHS
Holistic wellness is a philosophy that recognizes the interconnectedness of the mind, body, and spirit. It emphasizes the importance of treating the whole person, rather than just the symptoms of a specific health condition. This approach to wellness takes into account all aspects of a person’s life, including their physical health, emotional well-being, relationships, and…
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International Women’s Day | Becoming The Woman Of Your Dreams
March is Woman’s History Month and I want to highlight the importance of women being celebrated in the midst of their manifestation. One of the most challenging aspects of womanhood is transmuting our emotions into our evolution and creating a balanced, and desirable lifestyle. Click here to read more about becoming the woman of your…
Unpacking The Lucky Girl Syndrome: for BIPOC
Lucky girl syndrome, also known as princess syndrome, is an informal term used to describe the tendency of some young women to have an inflated sense of entitlement and expect special treatment from others. It is often associated with feelings of superiority and a lack of empathy for others. This can manifest in various forms,…
5 Mindful Tips When Starting College after 25
Many women struggle with finding jobs that are worthwhile in today’s society due to the climate of the economy and their education level. Today, more than ever, women over the age of 25 have the opportunity to learn a trade or return to school to help further their education and future opportunities. Click here to…
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The water sign that’s afraid of WATER
As a island girl, I’m actually embarrassed to say this but I’m terrified of water. Not bath water or Essentia water, I mean anything that doesn’t allow me to stand up without drowning. Click here to find out more about my fear of water ..
My Humble Era | New Beginnings
As we embark on a new year, I’ve spent the month of January in a self reflection/hermit mode phase and it has allowed to come to terms with some hard truths. This year on DeFine Feminine, as a 𝖂𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖓𝖊𝖘𝖘 𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖗𝖔𝖕𝖔𝖑𝖔𝖌𝖎𝖘𝖙, I will be sharing more my wellness updates, my observations of the human experience, and…
LaKeith Stanfield’s Unscripted Ghetto Love Story
Sex for most men is a game, meanwhile many women have to carry the burden of the aftermath of intercourse. Recently, LaKeith Stanfield’s second baby mother came out in a recent TikTok saying that she’s tired of being his secret. Click here to read more on this story..
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Things To Do In Houston : The Haunted Hues Color Factory Experience
Since the 2017 opening of its first pop-up in San Francisco, Color Factory has grown into a series of flagship locations in New York and Houston, with a new location in Chicago opening in Spring 2022. Each location is inspired by and gives back to the city it’s in, working with local communities to identify…
The panty industry is evolving & so should you | The TRUTH about Parade Underwear
Parade has become one of the most innovative new age underwear brands and I’m here to share my thoughts on the brand and how impactful it is for women to feel comfortable in all articles of clothing. Having comfortable underwear is essential to your everyday life because it contributes to how you move throughout the…
“I don’t fuck with anything that crawls” Ft. Davi Nova
I’m this episode I spoke with my special guest Daviuska to discuss life as a graphic designer, living in NY, and learning more about her spiritual beliefs based on her upbringing. In this series, I’m discussing the fears and or phobias that many women embody even if it’s subconscious.
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It’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month Bitches!
It’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month and @yitty is partnering with @youngsurvivalcoalition which is the go to organization for young people who are effected by breast cancer. Nearly 80% of young women are diagnosed with breast cancer and most would find out while getting dressed. The FIT CHECK Inspired #titcheck is a simple way for you…
This is what you need to know before attending your first Women’s empowerment event
If you’re interested in going to a local women’s empowerment event but you’re alittle apprehensive, this is the blogpost for you. I came up with a few tips to keep in mind when you’re entering new spaces to network with other women in the near future. I’m confident that this guide will give you the…
New Season, New Era
The beauty of life is that you can start over at any point that you chose. It’s a new era and I’m excited to share some of my tips on stepping into your new era as well. It’s your chance to identify as whoever you chose to be because this is your journey, and you…
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8 Ways To Enhance Your Coochie Wellness
In honor of #sexualhealthweek , @definefemi9 welcomes you to learn and share all things revolving sexual health. As women our power resides within our minds and of course with our coochie. One of the best ways to have a healthy sex life is to honor our private parts and always make a conscious effort to…
My Thoughts On: Megan Thee Stallion x Yung Miami Interview| Caresha Please
The Caresha Please podcast aired on June 9th,2022 as it welcomes the biggest names in Hip Hop and entertainment for the most rawthentic conversations about topics we’ve all been curious about. Here are my thoughts on this weeks episode of Caresha Please featuring Megan Thee Stallion.
The Misconception Of The Stoner Woman
However you decide to consume, it will allow you to gain a new experience each time. Indulging in cannabis is a form of wellness for many and finding new ways to embrace it without facing time is a skill that any stoner can appreciate. Click here to learn more about cannabis and how it can…
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5 Reasons Why You Should Go Thrift Shopping
Thrifting is a fun, sustainable, and affordable. What better way to switch up your wardrobe than to go to a thrift store in your city and find cool gems you won’t see elsewhere ? This is your sign to find out 5 reasons why you should go thrift shopping.
Clubbing After 25: Too Grown To Be Cross Faded
Summer 22′ has been one for the books! The urge to live better, and smarter has been strong so I’m happy to be apart of the outside crew. We all define living life differently whether you’re more family oriented or you’re on tour for the summer, living life is all up to you. In Houston,…
5 Reasons Why Women Should Rock Bald Haircuts
It’s summer time and it’s hot as hell! What better time to rock a baldie than now? There’s something so powerful in shaving off all of your hair at least once in your lifetime. All that old energy immediately disappears once you shave your crown and it ignites a new beginning. Yesterday, rapper/pop singer Doja…
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7 Ways To Embrace Feminine Energy
The Soft Life Era has brought the collective to an understanding that being the mean girl isn’t it. Learning how to embrace your feminine essence comes in various forms that benefits your everyday lifestyle so in this blog post you will learn 7 ways to embrace feminine energy internally and externally.
Masculine Fragility Does NOT Opt Men Out Of The Human Experience
Men deserve the tools to heal and to express their authentic selves as well. This month we acknowledge the masculine figures who afraid to speak up, it’s time to put in the work to heal that blockage that hinders your self expression. In honor of men’s mental health awareness month, I’d like to shed light…
The Negative Reality Of Body Positivity
“We’re not here to show you how to hide your rolls. We want you to look in the mirror and feel f*cking confident. I want you to able to look at yourself and say: ‘I love you, I want to treat you well, you deserve this.’” – @lizzo Being a woman is harder than it…
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DeFining Your Personal Style : Identity Through Fashion
Style /stīl/- a distinctive appearance, typically determined by principles according to which something is designed. Style and fashion are one of the most fluctuating industries in the world. One day we’re rocking polka dots because it’s in and the next decade, all black is a mood. With so many influences and icons floating through the…
How To Improve Your Self Esteem – DeFining Self
self-es·teem /ˈˌself əˈstēm/ noun confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self-respect DeFining Self has to be one of the biggest challenges you may take on within this lifetime. As human beings, we are constantly changing due to our current conditions sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. The development of self takes…
Things To Do In Houston: Explore China Town 💮
The Population of Houston is over 6,603,000 people meaning there are endless places and things to explore. Living in a big city gives you so many options to explore so here’s my experience visiting Houston’s China town.
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You don’t need therapy, you need help with developing your thoughts.
There’s nobody in the world that can define your experience but you. You may seek guidance to build the confidence through different experiences but you are the only person that can determine the energy you want to bring into existence.
The process of Elimination: “Thy will be done”
Wear your energy like your favorite shoes instead of having to force yourself into a pair that you’ve outgrew. As you evolve walk in your path with grace, positivity, and optimism. You will experience the most ease by grounding yourself in your own roots and sprouting into the best version of you that you’re proud…
The Forgotten Gems Tour
Joe Kay 4 Hour Set: Dallas I discovered Soulection back in 2010 on Soundcloud as I was browsing for eclectic versions of Lust for Life by Drake. Discovering so many artist simply by listening to his mixes has opened up so many doors of excitement from within, I’ve been hooked ever since. Mainstream media only…
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Trusting My Inner Truth
Whether you’re going with the flow or manually creating your reality, either way things are in motion and it’s up to you to decide how you want to go about it. In this blog post I discuss my updated thoughts on human design vs astrology.
Happy Mars Day – The Divine Masculine
2/6 InnerG Wellness Report 🔭🦋🔆💗🕊 Kali – The Goddess Of Desctruction, dissolution, and ecstasy. ec·sta·sy /ˈekstəsē/ – emotional or religious frenzy or trance-like state, originally one involving an experience of mystic self-transcendence. THE REBIRTH! Anytime I think about the rebirth, I think about that very first scene from Baby Boy where Tyrese grown ass was…
Happy Mo(o)n Day ! – In with the new, out with the old.
This Week’s InnerG is all about creating the ideal lifestyle that you desire. Today’s InnerG is all about Dyhana. The focus is deep concentration and meditation with the intention to know your truth.
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Holiday Full Face Glam
I created this beautiful green sultry look just in time for the holidays. Check out this FULL blog post with all items used to create this look along with the tutorial of how it all went down on my YouTube channel ( Venusianjonel ).
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Igniting The Internal Flame
“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle
Coming to terms with who you are and who you’re working towards being is vital to align with your higher self. There’s no shame in who you are before you stepped in your power, actually we should honor that person because she was the ladder…
Fraud Behavior in the Spiritual Community
So last night I decided to tune into my very first twitter spaces conversation it prompted me to write this blog post because the community is so problematic for so many reasons. When I got into spirituality I was introduced to the Hood healer and it was so refreshing having someone that I was able…
Humble Beginnings – Taurus Full Moon
The Taurus Full moon is great time to return to self and to find new ways to ground yourself in ways that allows you to grow. Grounding yourself will allow you to connect to the mind, body and soul to experience more peace and blessings in your inner world.
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The Opportunist in Love
The highest form of energy on this planet is love. All energy vibrates at different levels, but love vibrates at the highest frequency. When our heart is open to the highest vibrations and we start to attract love into our lives, loving people and loving experiences that allows us vibrate on the same level of…
10•30
I wrote this while getting a pedicure, I just needed to get my thoughts out of my head instead of internalizing things that I cannot change in the moment 💗
The Power Of Inner Knowing
My thoughts on men and women who aren’t aware of their worth while dating and the result of this disconnect always results in a cycle of avoiding the real issue : accountability. Being accountable will help you to make wise decisions to receive your blessings without suffering the consequences of ignoring your intuition when it’s…
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Towering Your InnerGenius – Venus In Saggitarius
“Introverts are like the stars in star apples. They don’t feel the need to reveal themselves, except someone rips them open.” – Michael Bassey Johnson
Enjoy this read about the Venus in Sagittarius transit and how it enhance how you approach the world going forward. Open yourself up to the possibilities of Nu connections that…
10 things I love about my Sacred body
“Since I don’t look like every other girl, it takes a while to be okay with that. To be different. But different is good.” — Serena Williams Enjoy my list of things I love about my body along with a journal prompt to help you write out your top 10 things you love about yours!
The Universe within Self
“When we repress our emotions or suppress our emotional content, whatever we are denying accumulates weight, or what I call vibrational density. This heaviness can take on many forms. But in all cases, it impedes your spirit’s natural ability to shine.” ― Panache Desai
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The Art Of Seduction: Venus in Scorpio ♍️
In a world where being seductive has been one of the most influential ways for women to be seen but not necessarily respected in society, here are a few ways to embrace your sense of sensuality to gain control over self and your surroundings. No cleavage needed to try these methods, enjoy this energy of…
𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙊𝙛 𝘾𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙩𝙮: FreeDOM
I’ll be sharing my weekly downloads based on the energy that is influencing my higher self to come forth. This week, the objective is to dominate your sense of freedom when creating more ways to express yourself. You may find different ways to express yourself that fits your lifestyle but try something out of your…
Self-Conscious : The Human Design
Life can be so much more beautiful if we allowed God to release us from our own misery. It takes courage to step into your power but it also takes trust within self to to show up for you everyday. Your blessings will effortlessly flow into your hands once you let go of the baggage…
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Consider all the odds- 222
Consider the odds of stepping out of your shell. Being instead of constantly trying feels more rewarding so why suffer ? Welcome to Chapter 222
The Last Chapter
Thank you for tuning into DeFINE Feminine where I discuss defining my experience as a woman. Ideally “ Fine” is emphasized because I’ve always enjoyed embracing my intellect and my appeal within this lifetime. Learning the true meaning of life and purpose will be an ongoing theme so I’ve decided to shamelessly share the highs…
Gratitude Is The Highest Latitude
“Believe in your heart that you’re meant to live a life full of passion, purpose, magic and miracles.” – Roy T. Bennett
Today’s the day to turn the page and start clean and fresh. You have the power to take your life into your own hands and be as creative, imaginative and open as you…
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External vs internal validation
Create meaningful goals for yourself so that others won’t feel the need to project their expectations on to you. Obviously there are situations you cannot call all the shots but just imagine a world where you’re in charge of setting your own expectations for your well being, it’s your world everyone else is coexisting within…
Reclaim your Power: Set The Tone
You have everything within you to set boundaries that aligns with who you are today. Prioritizing your spiritual wellness and forgiving those who are not able to meet you where you’re at is all apart of the journey, your responsibility is to continue ascending.
Identifying Narcissitic Traits + Reparenting Yourself
Identifying narcissistic traits within a mother daughter dynamic has to be one of the most groundbreaking experiences thus far. Taking accountability for a life you did not chose is the first step to freeing yourself. This post is all about choosing yourself and whats worthy of your precious time on this earth.
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Vow to Love
Setting intentions are one of my favorite hobbies. Being intentional with your words, thoughts, and actions helps you to set the tone of how you’d like to live a fruitful life going forward. It’s not about where you start it’s about where you’re heading.
Self Love: Free Printables
The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”
–Victor Hugo
Planet Her ( DELUXE) by Doja Cat
After spinning through this album a few times and waiting for the hype to die down I decided to give my thoughts on each song based on how I felt while listening to it. Music is subjective so many may not agree but this is my review on the Planet Her Album. As a fan…
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Divine LOVE
To know love you must be 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴. Consciously embracing things that loves you in return allows for the love to flow through you effortlessly. You owe this self and to the people, places and things around you. Things that are worthy of your love will naturally come your way, and subconsciously you’ll disconnect from poisonous…
Do you want to be a victim or victorious ?
victim (n.) an unfortunate person who suffers from some adverse circumstance.
Feeling FULLfillment
Fulfilled is defined, “satisfied or happy because of fully developing one’s abilities or character.” Being fulfilled is a process through failures and victories, rather than focused on one specific moment. This post is all about my journey towards fulfillment, this is such a freeing feeling and I’m so blessed to share this with you!
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Happy Solar Return, Cheers to 26 🦋
“This birthday, I wish you abundant happiness and love. May all your dreams turn into reality and may lady luck visit your home today. Happy birthday to one of the sweetest people I’ve ever known.”
Tis the season, Cancer season that is ♋️
The power of minding your business and focusing on you allows true growth and prosperity. Accepting things for what they are and moving towards what you want to achieve is the way to go. HBD Cancers ♋️🦋🌸💕
Self doubt is your personal HATER
I recently opened up my MacBook and began recording a homemade video on photo booth. It’s been a while since I’ve had fun in the photo booth app but I decided to do a little face mask chit chat video. I feel like self doubt is your intuition challenging the odds of things playing out…
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Knowing your worth cost $0.00
Knowing your worth is super important as a woman. Exchanging your energy with people who do not bring out the best brings out the worst in us so be your best, and be with those who do the same.
Gemini Seasoning – “I manifest my reality”
Please read this from a Gemini’s POV. I know, you’re probably mad af that it’s Gemini season and retrograde but I feel amazing. I’ve found a way to shift my reality and take more time with myself. There’s no such thing as too much self care, right ?
Chose Happiness 🤎
We’re at war in our own minds as if there’s no escape, as if there’s nothing else to enjoy in this world. We limit our beliefs based on what we see, based on what we’re taught.
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Stimulating the mind, body, and soul
Paying for sex is more normalized than women that work in the sex industry having normal lives. There’s a disconnect between the money and the energy exchange that goes into sex. With money you’ll have the access, with the energy being intentional you’re able to use discernment in ground breaking moments that you cherish. Let’s…
BIG GODDESS InnerG | Taurus New Moon ✨
New Moon In Taurus is all about self indulgence, and inner peace. Apart of that highlights all that you’ve worked for being appreciated and embraced during this time. Life isn’t about suffering, it’s a celebration of your growth every season. This piece is all about embracing the light and dark side of your journey ☯︎︎
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Proof of Sex : I’m more than being someone’s Mom
I decided to write my thoughts on why I consciously did not pursue motherhood. I respect those who are enjoying their journey but everyone’s reality is different and we need to normalize people waiting for their time to bloom into becoming the woman they are proud of prior to stepping into motherhood if we have…
Slow stroll, PowerFUL progression
My pattern app was dragging me to filth so I felt inspired to share alittle about why it’s important to stay focused on the goal. The things that feel heavy, reminds you of struggle, and makes you sad it’s most likely not needed. We give our power away because of how we were raised. To…
Note to Future Self
2/28/17 Life isn’t only about being happy, it’s about possessing what you’re content with and finding ways to expose yourself to things that make you uncomfortable. I’ve experienced different forms of pain thus far and every one of them in the moment felt I was jogging through hell but in reality it was all temporary.…
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Journal Entry – Outgrowing My Past Self
3/19/19 3:10am I am manifesting the live I’ve always desired. Feminine freedom,liberated concepts and experiences that allows the evolution to get sweeter as you go. I want to start by creating a space for women to feel beautiful. I started Froliyf 2 years ago and I want to go to hair school to expand my…
Find your Inner Voice
Here are some key elements on how to find your inner voice during any exchange. Although we create doubts and insecurities in our mind, building a better relationship with our thoughts will help manifest a better perception of self.
What’s keeping you stagnant ?
As a person that struggled with embracing my true authentic self, I felt inclined to share my thoughts on how this journey truly works. There’s no money in this world that can fix you from within. It takes time, not $$$.
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Does my Afro make you uncomfortable ? | 𝙰𝚏𝚛𝚘 𝙳𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚘𝚙𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝙸𝚗 𝙷𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚢
Over the years, Black men and women have been persuaded that their natural hair was not socially acceptable in public places. Short natural hair has to be one of the most frowned upon styles in our community. Where did that derive from? We’re talking about Fros, Perms, and the representation in media that influenced us…
Who is She ?
This will take place as my about me post. Summarizing the events/achievements I’ve made over the years.
𝖁𝖊𝖓𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖆𝖓𝖏𝖔𝖓𝖊𝖑 