Summer Joy Is Political
Joy isnβt a reward for surviving. Itβs a practice of refusing to let burnout, grief, or fear have the final say. This summer, I realized that every rooftop party, every solo date, every relationship, and every moment I intentionally budgeted toward the season of summer wasnβt frivolous, itβs was an act of resistance. Because inβ¦
Throwing The Bouquet In The Name Of Love
If you know anything about me, Iβm far from the trad wife but I am a lover girl through and through. When I began to feel the desire to get married, it was during a time when a former friend was disposing of her marriage because she craved newness. It was a challenging time forβ¦
Tales Of An Unbothered Bride : Weeding Out What Truly Matters
As a 2025 bride that began her planning process as of a few months ago, Iβm coming to terms with the reality of planning and having your wedding the same year. I recently spoke to 2026 brides who are planning for their 2026 wedding ceremony and wedding planning seems a bit intense generally. As aβ¦
Unfinished Business: Within The Mind
This morning I woke up and my body felt off. Granted, my period should be here any day now, but I began thinking about what can possibly be wrong. My boyfriend asked me, βWhat triggered this sadness?β and I immediately said that I felt like a failure. Mind you, I felt amazing yesterday. But todayβ¦
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About Me
Hi, Iβm Jestine. I’ve created a blog to express my various experiences defining my own sense of femininity. My life goal is to be able to teach and share my insight on love, light, and sometimes the dark side of obtaining inner strength as a woman. We’re all sent here to regain our power after unfortunate events by constantly testing the narrative and thinking outside the box. Hopefully, you’ll be able to learn something from the stories that I share throughout this journey. If you are a warrior @ heart with lot’s of love to give but you’re trying to find a place to put it, DeFine Feminine is the place to be!
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